There was a disagreement that I had with one of
my colleagues. We were collaborating about activities to do before we had
spring break. We meet as a team to
discuss issues, concerns, plan, collaborate, etc. Well, this particular time my colleague seem
to fight everything that was brought to the table and coming up with an excuse
of why not to do it with her class. In order for us to do something we all have
to agree with it and she was the only one that acted nonchalant and had an
attitude about what was being brought to the table. We decided to let the
students have game day on Friday, where the students bring board games, cards,
etc. She did not like the idea and she thought the kids should just watch a
movie. I explained that we had a movie day and that it would be good to watch
the students interact through board games and solve problems. I did not allow
the argument to go back and forth because I realize that we would not get anywhere
with that. My other colleague on the team agreed with the game day and we
decided to do it. She realized that she was wrong to cut off every idea I brought
to the table. I decided to use cooperative strategy. We came together and
talked about everything and fixed the problem. She admitted to having a bad day
and apologized for fighting everything we brought to the table, and after she
thought about it the game day was a great idea. I am glad I did not go back and
forth because that could lead up to an argument and it is important to pick and
choose your battles and that was not one to pick.
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